Reasons why relationships should be effortless..

Come to think of this, did you know why we have a lot of breakups nowadays? Have you asked yourself the reason for the break and divorce? 
As we continue, you will find out some clues that led to those misfortune in relationships. 
According to a recent research, we found out that 80 percent of Relationship fail because of pretence! 
Let’s look at why relationships should be effortless, free from pretence. 

An effortless relationship can stay the test of time and can guarantee more happiness to both the partners.If you are trying too hard to just maintain the relationship then it simply means that your relationship needs efforts and it isn’t an effortless journey.

Relationships should be effortless. Only then, you will be able to sail in that ship for longer. 

True love should be effortless and joyful. If every minute is hell, then you will soon give up.Here are some reasons for relationships should be effortless.

Reasons why relationships should be effortless are:

1.You Can’t Pretend For Long: You can act smart or try to look like a hero for a short while but you can’t do it for long. If your relationship demands such pretensions, it is better to walk out as your false self can be impressive but it isn’t real.

2.Relationships Need To Last Longer: If you want to share your entire life with her, show your true self and character and see if she comes forward. Some or the other day, if she finds your weaker side, she may walk out. So, show that side now itself to avoid a future disappointment.

3.You Don’t Want To Feel Drained: Show your true side and get into a relationship. The acceptance levels would be higher and the room for arguments would be lesser. If you build a relationship on false standards, the disappointments would be too high later.

4.You Don’t Want A Heart Break: If a relationship isn’t effortless, it may end up as a break up sooner or later. If you are spending every minute in a tensed state, why would you even continue such a relationship? 

5. Loosing everything: Of course, if a relationship aren’t effortless, the probability is there, that certainly you’ll  loose him/her, we may be as a result of not reaching up to expectation. 

I want to ask you a question, do you want to loose everything you worked for because of pretence? 

Yes/No the answer is yours and yours alone. But I will advise you to look into your relationship, search,  observe every thing you force yourself to do, check,  if you can carry on, no problem; but you can make amendments or quit the relationship because sooner or later it must surely lead to breakup. 

In conclusion, Pretence is a killer of Relationship,   if you don’t want a relationship, kindly speak out, and don’t let them force you into it. Because you peace, joy and happiness matters a lot. 


Thanks for your understanding, and I wish you well in your relationships. 

Let’s hear what you have to say with the comment box. ..       


One Comment Add yours

  1. Randy Garwin says:

    Good one, do you have more?


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